Inspired by a blog by the lovely Goddess Lycia. My answer pertains only to the relationship between a submissive and professional domme. The question is it cheating for a married man to see a professional dominatrix? My answer is well it depends. Depends on what you ask? On the relationship between the submissive and his or her significant other. I don’t believe that all humans are hardwired for monogamy, I’m certainly not. This is not however a license to cheat. I simply don’t entangle myself in monogamous relationships. Now if a submissive is in a poly relationship there isn’t a problem so long as he is honest with his other partners there is not a problem. Continue reading →