I am often asked by potential minions what I look for in a submissive. Well aside from the obvious issues of general compatibility I always look for someone who enjoys their submission as much as I enjoy my dominance. I like people who are inspired to submit, who have interrogated their own masochistic desires well enough to be able to articulate the driving force that compels them to submit. As always I am interested in the “why”. There are many different ways and reasons to serve and I do understand that they change. I’m not expecting a full treatise on the matter especially from a new submissive. What I do expect though is that if you approach me you have at least spent some time thinking about why you like to submit. More specifically I expect you to say why you want to submit to me. Continue reading
Financial Domination Part 1: Why I do it
This will be first of at least 3 posts on the subject of financial domination. So the question is why do I do it? Of course most people think the answer is money, but this about so much more than your dollars. In our society despite the progress that has been made, one of the last arenas of male power is money. This not to say women can’t make money and lots of it. Trust me I probably make more than half of you minions. However the fact remains that men are still paid more than women. I am not going to launch into a long diatribe about the causes of wage disparity between the genders, because I would hope we all have a basic grasp of gender issues. That said we all know money is power, and power is my fetish. Continue reading
Why an Ebony Domme?
Is it the creamy chocolate of my skin? Is it the controlled kink of my hair? Perhaps the infamous curves of my anatomy? So curious white boy/girl what is it calls you to the dark side of servitude? Yes, I’m onto you I’m not so deluded as to believe we exist is a post-racial world, I know that part of what calls you to my service is the color of my skin. After all you are specifically seeking an ebony domme. I know there are a dozen reason why you might be here. It could be that in your world I am still forbidden, other, exotic unknown. Maybe you lack the courage in your life to approach a strong woman of color and you need the anonymity of the cyber world to give you the courage to offer yourself to me. Would you be too intimidated to seek me out in the real world? Perhaps you suffer from liberal guilt and feel that subjugating yourself to me, will make up for perceived social injustice (note:interrogating the issues with that is another post). Maybe you’ve put me on a pedestal, dangerous for you. Then again it may simply be that my beauty and wit are unlike any other you have ever encountered. So many reasons to serve an ebony domme. What’s yours?